The want to want more...

A man's life can end but his wants wont.. and the day they do... he shall be enlightened.. these beautiful dresses, branded shoes, a huge grand marriage, a 5 star hotel dinner date, a costly wrist watch.. and the most imp... a cellphone -WANTS. {INEXHAUSTIBLE}

The man who stands in a bus for a long time may say.. the man sitting on the seat is so much more comfortable... how i wish.....
Same way the man sitting on the seat may say "the man sitting on the window seat is so much more comfortable cause of the breeze.. how i wish...
The man sitting on the window seat may look at a person in the a/c car and may say.. how i wish i cud be there or afford such luxury..
But the man sitting in the car stuck in traffic driving... wud love the man who will walk by his car and reach the destination sooner.. he'd say how i wish i cud get down n walk it up..
But the man who was walking may love it even if he cud stand and go in the bus...
This is an unbreakable vicious circle.... the circle of wants.. tht may never end.. and to end this.. we have to grow out of being mortal.. need to be satisfied.. by which i don mean tht we shudnt strive for more.. always do.. but striving for more shudnt become a need.. nor a want.. it shud just be!!! we shud be satisfied that we are alive....

looking at those poor people on the road makes me want to give up my comfortable life cause if they cant have shelter.. proper food then i have no right to sit on this computer with the a/c on and me writing a blog... and to sleep on a comfortable bed.. eat mcdonalds burger... but how will my death make a difference.. how will me giving up my life help them?? tht was the first question in my head.. and i said.. just helping these people is now my goal in life.. and i will study.. grow up.. earn enough not to give away in charity but give these people a life they deserve... me wanting a rich life may be my want... or our want.. but in these fantasies we forget that our want cudn't be as important as their NEED!.. Lets prioritize guys...

Whats more Important... lets wake up... lets help.. as they have a right to live too.. lets stop wanting... lets help fulfilling needs... and like my previous post... lets love doing this..:)

-With LOVE - Kanchan:)

Birth..Relationships..Death.. Or is it something more??

We usually think of parents, relatives, friends or lovers when the word "relationship" is taken.. but what do these relationships mean to us?? we also say that i cant live without "xyz".. do we really mean it? ask yourself.. ask people who have lost any of their near n dear ones!! you know what.. they're still alive.. why do we lie to ourselves.. why do we attach ourselves to someone to such an extent that their presence completes us.. why do we give the right or want the right to interfere(harsh word.. i know) in each others life.. is tht what a relationship is all about.. i don think so.. it was today tht i realised tht we always wanto possess someone.. and not let them go.. we are such selfish people.. its all about our view to life and relationships.. why is it said that man is a social animal.. we'd die without society... true.. no one can live alone.. but can someone enjoy having the company of others and not cry in their absence ever?? if someone does... we' call him heartless or emotionless... and if he does cry we call him weak.. why?? have any of us ever thought what wud happen if we dint have the parents we do.. the best friends we love to be around and the lovers who we cuddle with... u knw what... BIG SHIT... it wud be someone else... and u'd be comfortable with them too.. its jus the matter of time.. it would make a difference for sure.. but does it really matter to us?? unless we're attached to these people.. our we capable of living a happy life? we may "lose"(as everyone puts it) someone or sumthing all the time.. does tht mean we can never be happy... and if we cant.. i don think we deserve to live.. so we shud die.. but again...is death the end?? is this all we're born for?? is this it?? growing up.. studying... getting married.. happines.. having children.. losing parents.. crying.. dissapointments.. hatred.. fights.. and DEATH..THATS IT? cant we expect a little more from life.. from relationships..from LOVE? we either live or lose.. they say live each moment.. and if u dont u lose each moment.. why not say love each moment.. love it when ur getting married..lovve it when u wake up..love making food..love even ur nature's cal(if u knw wat i mean?)..love being urself..love havnig a relaionship..love losing someone cause maybe this is better way of showing gratitude for whatsoever they must have done for us.. love everything u do cause thts the only way u can do ur best.. love everyone.. thank everyone even the ricksha driver who drops u home.. and even the man who washes ur car.. and even the post man who climbed a couple of stairs for delivering an imp msg to u.. all these help.. it makes their day.. why wud they do these things for.. u havent obliged them in any way.. jus a smile and a word of gratitude may help.. love evryone... love life.. and life will love u.. i read this line in a book..- "love life to such an extent that even death may wanto be alive!!!!.." :) keep smiling and keep loving.. i hope this blog may make a difference in the behaviour towards ppl and it wud help ppl understand how imp it is to love..
:-) with LOVE-Kanchan