We usually think of parents, relatives, friends or lovers when the word "relationship" is taken.. but what do these relationships mean to us?? we also say that i cant live without "xyz".. do we really mean it? ask yourself.. ask people who have lost any of their near n dear ones!! you know what.. they're still alive.. why do we lie to ourselves.. why do we attach ourselves to someone to such an extent that their presence completes us.. why do we give the right or want the right to interfere(harsh word.. i know) in each others life.. is tht what a relationship is all about.. i don think so.. it was today tht i realised tht we always wanto possess someone.. and not let them go.. we are such selfish people.. its all about our view to life and relationships.. why is it said that man is a social animal.. we'd die without society... true.. no one can live alone.. but can someone enjoy having the company of others and not cry in their absence ever?? if someone does... we' call him heartless or emotionless... and if he does cry we call him weak.. why?? have any of us ever thought what wud happen if we dint have the parents we do.. the best friends we love to be around and the lovers who we cuddle with... u knw what... BIG SHIT... it wud be someone else... and u'd be comfortable with them too.. its jus the matter of time.. it would make a difference for sure.. but does it really matter to us?? unless we're attached to these people.. our we capable of living a happy life? we may "lose"(as everyone puts it) someone or sumthing all the time.. does tht mean we can never be happy... and if we cant.. i don think we deserve to live.. so we shud die.. but again...is death the end?? is this all we're born for?? is this it?? growing up.. studying... getting married.. happines.. having children.. losing parents.. crying.. dissapointments.. hatred.. fights.. and DEATH..THATS IT? cant we expect a little more from life.. from relationships..from LOVE? we either live or lose.. they say live each moment.. and if u dont u lose each moment.. why not say love each moment.. love it when ur getting married..lovve it when u wake up..love making food..love even ur nature's cal(if u knw wat i mean?)..love being urself..love havnig a relaionship..love losing someone cause maybe this is better way of showing gratitude for whatsoever they must have done for us.. love everything u do cause thts the only way u can do ur best.. love everyone.. thank everyone even the ricksha driver who drops u home.. and even the man who washes ur car.. and even the post man who climbed a couple of stairs for delivering an imp msg to u.. all these help.. it makes their day.. why wud they do these things for.. u havent obliged them in any way.. jus a smile and a word of gratitude may help.. love evryone... love life.. and life will love u.. i read this line in a book..- "love life to such an extent that even death may wanto be alive!!!!.." :) keep smiling and keep loving.. i hope this blog may make a difference in the behaviour towards ppl and it wud help ppl understand how imp it is to love..
:-) with LOVE-Kanchan
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Came across your blog. Liked your thoughts, being in a different perspective.
However 'love losing someone cause maybe this is better way of showing gratitude' seem to be high weasel words for mortals to accept.
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Gourav.
i agree.. i was just trying to make a difference.. cause after loss.. all people do is hate the loss n thts y they're sad and depressed.. but if u love ur loss.. u may be happy.. and the person who u lost may be proud of u.. :) wasay?
yeah kanchan, your exemplification is appreciated though difficult to execute practically.. We always tend to perfection, but its very hard to sustain.
Good blog to start with!!
Gourav
who said its hard... its not hard... its VERY hard... to put down ur selfishness, ur ego.. but experience teaches u..
and we dont tend to perfection.. we tend to what we think is perfect.. though it might not be.. perfection cud be different for different ppl.. to each is own!!! thts y we cant sustain it as u say!
anyway, thanks for the appreciation.. or even to acknowledge my thoughts..
and i read ur blog.. its thoughtful.. the beauty of getting lost.. lked it..
keep blogging:)
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